Hello friends, and dear brothers and sisters in Christ. I hope this finds you well today.
I ask you to think about an important question, because the way you perceive the answer will have major consequences. Is God’s love unconditional? I would venture to say most people would answer this question with a resounding “Yes!”—but is this answer correct? Does God love the wicked and the righteous equally and unconditionally? We hear in so many churches, “Come, God loves you as you are.” But is this true?
For God so loved [agape] the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. ~ John 3:16
The love of God is certainly unmerited and undeserved, but is it unconditional? Again, is it true that He loves us as we are? Consider the following passages:
The Lord tests the righteous, but his soul hates the wicked and the one who loves violence. Let him rain coals on the wicked; fire and sulfur and a scorching wind shall be the portion of their cup. ~ Psalm 11:5-6
Every evil of theirs is in Gilgal; there I began to hate them. Because of the wickedness of their deeds I will drive them out of my house. I will love them no more; all their princes are rebels. ~ Hosea 9:15
And he answered them, “Do you think that these Galileans were worse sinners than all the other Galileans, because they suffered in this way? No, I tell you; but unless you repent, you will all likewise perish. ~ Luke 13:2-3
No, God does not love us unconditionally, and no, He does not love us just as we are. God hates our selfishness, greed, and immoralities; He hates our slander, hypocrisies, and lying; He hates our refusal to forgive, violence, and mean-spiritedness; and He hates our idolatries, corruption, and ulterior motives.
Throughout the world and in so many churches—both liberal and conservative, mind you—we’re patting ourselves on the back, all the while ignoring the grotesque sins we harbor in our hearts, and come floating to the surface in many of our words and actions. God does not love us “as we are”; no, He calls us to repent!
Lest someone says that what I am saying conflicts with the doctrine of grace, the apostle Paul teaches us:
For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age, waiting for our blessed hope, the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ. ~ Titus 2:11-13
No, God does not love us as we are. He calls us to confess and repent of all known sin. His desire for His people, those who are truly born again, to be conformed to the image of His Son.
For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son. ~ Romans 8:29
We can see so much around us, in every denomination, what Dietrich Bonhoeffer described as “cheap grace.” Many talk about God’s love and grace, even though they’re not being trained or changed by it. Many talk about Jesus being their Savior, but the question must be asked, from what has He saved them from? For Jesus came to save His people from their sin (and their bondage to it), not simply to save us from hell.
She will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins. ~ Matthew 1:21
Understand, God’s love and grace abounds exceedingly for those who come to Christ in faith. Indeed, He is so ever tender and compassionate, and understands our weaknesses. However, for those who want to indulge in their lusts and passions while professing an empty faith, such individuals do not understand God’s love or grace. Oh sure, they might go to church, but they are building their house on sand without a foundation.